OK, here was my response:

I’m sorry you feel this way. If you would like to discuss, I am open to hearing your concerns.

Also, wanted to let you know I have switched attorneys, as I felt that [Lawyer #1] was going to stir the pot unnecessarily, and I prefer to avoid drama and excess legal fees. My new lawyer is [Lawyer #2].


I didn't remind him that he was the one who wants the D, but that I won't stand in his way, since I just did that a few days ago.

I really hope I don't get another nastygram in response, though I am bracing myself for one.


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14