Wife wants divorce - my first post

[tbm4evr]

Thanks again everyone. Advina, I am focusing on me. I was going to vent to my wife's folks but what good would that do - none. I don't understand what is going through her head. Something I have not mentioned is 3 years ago she had a 2 month PA with a neighbor I suspected. ..i called her on it and she admitted it. Last week she came home and told me she ran into him and conversation was cold but talked to him about his wife continuing to call her to do stuff that she feels she has to oblige so his wife won't wonder what's up (although she has made excuses sometimes)...my W is at her birthday gathering now ...crazy ...i dont know what to make of all this crap. I asked her to quit talking to this guy and the other guy she seems to be having EA with but she won't quit. Should be interesting night with wife coming home after her therapy and the birthday gathering.