I am currently physically separated from my wife and two children. We are not legally separated. She indicated she wanted a divorce back in November. We went to a very inexperienced marriage counselor at the local college because it was much more inexpensive. Lets just say out of this whole process of attempting to get back together that was quite possibly the worst decision ever.
I don't know if I am supposed to type everything out here or not. Or just introduce myself/situation. So I will start with that.
I can call/text my wife. I can talk to my kids. I have them almost every weekend. I am attempting the LRT but with kids it is somewhat difficult. Just prior to reading the LRT in the book I had asked my wife out to coffee while the kids are in school. It went ok. We have plans to do it again this friday.
She wants to be friends. She wants an amicable divorce. I have told here many times that I do not. There have been really heated fights about this. One in December was what lead to me not staying in my home any longer. Without details it got ugly fast and I moved in with my mom.
There is so much I don't know if I should write it all down here or submit a new thread for the sake of brevity/congruity.
I have the books, DB and DR, I havent read DB I am currently on step 6 in DR.
So, Should I just start a thread and begin discussion there? Or should I just let the keys fly here?
