The W is working v hard at the minute and traveling over a thousand miles a week for work.

Was thinking of sending a nice hand tied bouquet of flowers to her office in London tomorrow (the potential OM works here too). Do I do it? Or is that chasing? I know it goes against sandis rule 8. Do not buy gifts to make "brownie points". (Can't buy his/her love and affection.), but she is actively asking me to woo her. What do I do?


Me 41, W 39
Married 5 years
Together 10 years
S4, D2