Your W is placating you. She has taken NO responsibility for her actions and instead has blameshifted alot of it onto you.
She justified her actions by using her friend as an example. She didn't take ANY responsibility for her actions. You notice she said that she did it because you were "too clingy"? I would be too if I thought my W were fooling around.
Start getting your b@ll$ back from her. Once you start establishing yourself as the MAN in the relationship, she'll start rethinking things. What have YOU been doing to go out and reclaim your manhood?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.