Youre suggesting very non db ideas on this db forum; want to make sure newcomers know that.
If w became interested in someone "who listens to her" and objects to neediness and clinginess; there's lots to work on while giving her space. Do it for you. You have the wakeup call to learn a lot more about mistakes you made. Dont pass up the chance by fixating on w and om.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
