I am very impressed that you say you aren't "looking" for reconciliation signs. Thats awesome. And how you label it as "interesting" and not searching for more. I guess that comes with Time!.
I think its really nice how she wanted to ensure your comfort level by explaining the ring situation.
As for interest in another relationship... I agree, I cannot imagine the intimacy or ever be as intense. I wonder at what point, that changes. I do feel that its possible that the grass could be much greener for me.... but, have concerns that I would never reach the level that we had, with someone else. Which is why I feel I try soooo much harder to DB and my goal is still to R with h. I am very curious how this change happened for you.
Its just awesome that you now see this MLC time as a "gift", as you are now the man you want to be. I do see this happening for me too (as a woman), becoming a WAY better person, but... I am still a work in progress.
Nice to hear you have survived and are thriving.
Can't wait to hear your next chapter. You are inspiring.
Thanks, Magic
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
