Cadet - thanks for the into post. I have been reading the boards for about a week now. When will my post be seen on the forums page?

Shortly after posting yesterday I was told she is telling things about me that are not true of me or our situation. Has told people I am an abuser, forced her to get married to me, has known since November she didn't want to be married and told me when I was in Missouri to stay there and not come back to Tennessee but we would still have our relationship. people in our hometown are now talking about the situation and my name is being stained for things I know are not true. She is telling people only parts of the story to make her seem like the good guy. I have no reason to lie, I am searching for answers. But I will not stand for my reputation and character to be ruined.


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M: 32 W: 26
M 7 months, T 4 years
M: 2nd M
W: 1st M
No kids

living separately 1/26/14
W files D 2/24/14
D final 4/28/14