Any chance you could ask him if he would prefer to mediate? I just did this last week with my h. The mediator was a lawyer/councellor. Specializing in conflict resolution. The meeting was amazing, and who would have thought that Reconcilliation was an option.
Maybe take the attack approach out of the conflict and see what can be mutually agreed upon. Who knows, maybe a reconcilliation could be in the works for you both, if you take the "me me me" out of it.
I guess it may depend on what you really want. I am all for standing up for yourself and getting what you need. A laywer as back up is my plan... but, waiting to see if we can negotiate terms that are suitable for both (with reconcilliation on the table).
Good luck...
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