Recruit,

This may be some of the more difficult 180"s for you in all reality. At some point you really have to look in the mirror and question how you got where you were. New clothes, working out, and an improved attitude are all great 180's.....But there are some that are not as easy. So the wife's statement about your family being the cause/enablers of your depression may be way off base....or she might have hit the nail right on the head.

So my question to you....Does you family enable your depression? Do they mean well, but are keeping you from learning how to deal with it? Why are they offering to help now?

Remember that while a lot of what comes out of a WAW's mouth is rubbish.....There is a good chance a small portion is spot on.

So what is your take on your relationship with your parents?


"Be the changes you want to see in the world"