Thanks for your responses. Hs, the OM is divorced but lives with his ex and two kids ...hes obviously in screwed up relationship. You say nothing will get better as long as my wife is in even an EA with this guy ...but there is nothing I can do about it ...just work on me and hope she comes around - right?


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14