So devil's advocate here: He didn't say you were wreaking havoc but the filing was. I don't know why that would be. Do you? Is there some legitimate reason he would say that?
He said it was the injunction that was the problem. The injunction only stops him from dissipating or disposing of marital assets, and taking the kids out of state without my permission. The only asset that has anything to do with his career is his partnership interest in his law firm. (The exact reason I filed - because he was saying he was going to give it up.) Last week, after he saw his own L, he sent me an email about how he understood now that his partnership interest is worth something, so he had told his firm he would stay on as a partner, and he would sever his ties with his consulting clients (he is not allowed to have those clients while a partner with his firm), with only one little snide remark.
I can only guess he didn't really mean it then and is mad now. Maybe he expected me to back down after his email? I don't know. But the injunction is in place whenever a legal separation or a divorce is pending, so I am not sure how he thought this was going to work.
I need to come back later to think about it from an outsider's perspective, and to try to read it without emotion. Right now I read it as, "me me me me me me me, who cares about you, it's all about me, and it's all your fault."
Maybe IC will help.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
