melissa - standing up for me

[labug]

So devil's advocate here: He didn't say you were wreaking havoc but the filing was. I don't know why that would be. Do you? Is there some legitimate reason he would say that?

Be angry, get it out, write out in you own journal what you would like to say and come back with a clear head. What are you really feeling? Scared, hurt, disrespected?

I've seen your responses on other threads, you get this. Reread your H's email without emotion and the internal inflection you might automatically add, what would you say to another poster?

He wants a discussion, you can do that or not. If you can't deal with him face-to-face, you don't have to. That's what L's are for, right?

He may get angry. Oh, well. He can deal with that.