2TH, I'm not going to tell you to stop hanging out with her, as long as you are happy with the sitch right now. Are you sure that you have no expectations? It has happened to me a number of times that I thought I had no expectations, but then I realized I actually did and was disappointed.
Do you think you can truly detach when you see her all the time? I'm asking out of curiosity. I know for me, the thing that helps me detach the most is just being away from my H.
I know it seems very weird. My buddy even says that I do everything unorthodox. I do think differently than most people; one of the many reasons I did get along with my ex. The way I see it, if I detached this way before I can do it again right? I've seen many people on here who are still hurting after many years. I was pretty much detached after around 10 months last time. On top of that we were getting along fine.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
