Sex-Starved??? That's an understatement!

[LFC1170]

Not so much...
is your wife doing most of the housework, cooking and childcare? How much work does your special needs son, require?

My wife is not big on housework and my son needs as much as any normal 10 year old, at least at home. He's very high functioning. So are you equating some home cooking, most times, cancels out my complete support daily even though she don't want anything to do with me intimately as a husband?

If so, do you see the connection between her feelings of not being "woman enough to bear healthy/additional children", and feelings of being attractive? B/c it directly relates to a woman's libido, b/c if we do not feel attractive or secure, we are rarely interested in intimacy.

I did not think of this. It's very possible. She can bear children though, with some infertility treatments and supplements. She is probably burdened with ceserean sections for life though.