One baby step at a time...

[melissag]

2TH, I'm not going to tell you to stop hanging out with her, as long as you are happy with the sitch right now. Are you sure that you have no expectations? It has happened to me a number of times that I thought I had no expectations, but then I realized I actually did and was disappointed.

Do you think you can truly detach when you see her all the time? I'm asking out of curiosity. I know for me, the thing that helps me detach the most is just being away from my H.