You aren't responsible for his feelings, he feels what he feels and if he doesn't like it he needs to figure out what to change.

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I got sadder and sadder, and anxiety started kicking in pretty bad for me, as I watched H pulling away from me again, after watching him be so optimistic about wanting to work on things. That things, "were different now and that his heart wasn't in it for trying before, but now he was totally committed."
sounds pretty co-dependent.

What were you doing about stopping your free-fall?

What do you want to do now?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss