Well, I just got tough with Smokey and I filed a request to file a request for child support with the local child support enforcement agency.
And!! I'm ok! I didn't melt, evaporate, fall apart or have a nervous breakdown!! Go figure.
It started innocently. I simply texted, "Will you be making any deposits this week?
Smokey: Yes, house payment and prob a couple hundred.
Me: I need exact figures and times. That's well below what we agreed upon.
Smokey: No reply.
I wait.
Me: I will need to file for an order of temporary support if something doesn't change by Friday. You placed the burden of parenting soley on my shoulders and you aren't paying the agreed upon support.
Smokey Replies!!
I will be mailing the house payment along with a couple hundred dollars of the child support and the rest of the money will come in the last check of this month.
And, so-and-so called me about a bill due.
Me: I'm glad So-and-So was able to reach you. The kids and I usually aren't so lucky. In January, you promised money and it never appeared. If you can give me an exact amount and date I can expect it, I would appreciate it.
And, the remaining tuition bill for D19 came. I will forward this bill and my tax information to you by the beginning of next week.
No response.
I can't say he doesn't scare me at all. But, wow, it's more like a little shiver of disgust than a full on shake.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
