Thanks TL72. I have done 180 and GAL. I've been praying too. Always had faith but it just strengthens during trying times.I am waiting for DB book. Hope it comes soon. We are leaving for vacation this Friday for a week. I wonder how it will go. Room has bunk beds for kids and a king bed for us ...we have not slept together for 6 weeks. Maybe wife will put me on the floor :-/. I'm hoping this trip will do us some good. We talked about it all last night and she is excited to go. Obviously hard to detach with everything going on (trip, and we do have kids, etc.) but still can 180 on alot of things and GAL - not complaining because at least she is still here. Im trying to follow Sandys rules ..blew it a couple times as you can see from my other post but trying to stay on track. Wife said she's seeing her therapist today so I'm curious how things will be this evening when she arrives home. I will pray for you too. Thanks for being the first to respond to my post ...it's so hard - I know you know.


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14