Do you have a plan of activies for the week? Something that gets you out of the house? Or do you kind of wait and watch to see what she's going to do? In other words, are you scheduling your life around her?
When you are on a healthy R, then you do want to consider your S and be with them when possible. But when you have a WAS in an A, you have to make a life that does not depend on her. It doesn't feel right, to do this, b/c your M mind is conditioned to do otherwise. If you are going to apply the LRT, I believe you have got to GAL.
You have made a beginning. But now it is time to get out of the house and be around people your age. Do you have any single buddies?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!