I have been trying to be more detached and 180 on things that would usually cause friction.
I have been semi successful and seen an upturn in W attitude and behaviour. We spent most of yesterday working together, and it went mostly well.
However this morning she did comment that it would be months until she felt able o be comfortable with me following how I have been for all this time, and then said that she doubts we will make it until that happens.
She then left to go to London for work for a few days. I won't call or text (I normally do a whole lot). When we are in contact I will be positive and friendly.
I am having a rest day following being up all night with a poorly baby, and hoping to work out this afternoon and meet a friend tomorrow.
Me 41, W 39 Married 5 years Together 10 years S4, D2
