Thank you, I'll look into it. And yes, we've been to a marriage counselor once before. It was eye opening, but we never went back after that. I wish he would have been more willing to try. Now he is to the point where he is completely done. As a matter of fact, we just got an offer on our house and by contract have to take it because the buyers are offering everything were asking for. I'm in shock. We've just separated on 1/9/14. Things are moving too fast and I'm devastated. I have no control over my life anymore.