This past weekend wife had a great spa day (my gift to her from sweetest day back in October). I took kids and went to target/costco. Got home after 3 and we both hung out till 5 with nice light conversation, IU basketball etc ..We were watching the game. She then said she needed to go to the mall to get stuff for our trip but wanted to shower first. So I said I m going to go to the cigar bar and watch the rest of the game and get something to eat. I left. While there all of the bar "therapists" got me in a bad mood convincing me wife was having an affair. When I got home wife said why you in a bad mood. I told her. Big mistake ..put her on defensive saying nothing going on ...she said she then had to go. She let me kiss her cheek and left. Don't know what to make of it. Any thoughts?


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14