M, I think we are married to the same H. I have had the same arguments with my H. It just goes to show that no relationship is perfect. I think that our Hs are going to be disappointed when they determine that the idea of a perfect R that they have created in their mind does not exist.
I am officially exhausted after the marathon cleaning session. The house looks amazing. The garage, basement and office have NEVER looked this clean and organized. Even when my H would help, he would get bored 3/4 of the way through and the project would remain unfinished. Without him here I was able to power through everything.
After I finished the house, I ran out to the grocery store. I must have hit a wall because seeing couples/families together made me sad. I knew that I was just tired and that was why my PMA was taking a hit. So I bought myself some ice cream to eat while I watch the bachelor (and lose some brain cells) and try and forget about the fact that H is with OW (yuck).
I got a call from one of my BFF tonight. She was in tears when I answered the phone. She has withstood more heartache in the past four years than anyone should have to experience in a lifetime. Her story makes mine look like a walk in the park. My heart breaks for her knowing that she is going through a very similar sitch. She deserves a break and pure happiness. I am just glad we can be there for each other.
