Originally Posted By: peaceSJ
Honestly I don't think it can do anything to our R now, but I still want to give a try.

You know you are right about not gaining anything from this. It's your choice. I do hope you will see some positives.

Originally Posted By: peaceSJ
In our culture, if a person knows the other person is married and has kids but still tries to steal that married person from his/her family, that person is not a good person.

Right. Just don't minimize your H's part in this.


Again, why do you feel the need to compete with anyone?
Do you want to rescue your H? From who?


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet