Luck,
You know me in person. Try to get yourself ogether a bit. I see no context with your article and your situation your in.

Sit back and try to see your situation in 1 yr 5 yrs 10 yrs. it's not hard.

Please read divorce and new beginning immediately. Very good book . Please re read it . Perspective and context are relevant for any situation. Please don't loose it in your constant daily rat race. Please detach, you won't die. The biggest devil is in your head, the fear and rejection and fear of loosing. I hate to be advisorial but I care about you and want to be direct.

Be the father. Period. It's the value and belief at the core that need to change. Out ward actions follow the inside. Also read mans search for meaning victor Franko.

I learn from reading. Try things that help your emotional learning. Practice . Slay the dragon. Courage comes from heart. Not from mind. You can analyze with your mathematical brain . Heart, It's way too powerful, that's how we are wired.


M - 39W- 38
M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths
Son - 2 yr day care
S - 9/12
Divorced- 10/10/13
Visits with son other week
Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered