Meet with him in person, but go in knowing that you will agree to absolutely nothing in that meeting. This will take the pressure off and allow you to have open ears and an open heart - it will allow you to be kind and patient and compassionate and gentle and self-controlled.
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M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.