I guess I'm still in standing place but I'm on a fence and the wind is blowing and I don't know which way the wind will blow me..
Know what is cool?
YOU get to decide which side of the fence you land on and even cooler than that.....
YOU can sit on one side today and another tomorrow.
It is all YOU.
YOU have the choices and .....the freedom to change your mind at any point.
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don't think he's in a place to negotiate with me and is going to freak out when he sees my response letter
He may freak regardless of the letter says. Then again...if you probably offered to move out, give him the house, the kids, all of the furniture, offer to come into the house only to cook and clean - then promptly leave. Hand over all retirement, offer to drive him around, hand over your entire pay check for the rest of your life, ask "how high" every time he says jump, pay all legal fees (including his attny), assume 100% of all debt, pay all school fees for the kids, and all of his living expenses in addition to handing over all of your income and really just understand that everything is all YOUR fault....
Well then maybe he will not be upset
You can... though keep your cloth
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
