Ah, but you can at least try to structure it a bit, and use your mind when doing so is useful (perhaps this is my training and German background showing).
Of course emotion is there too. I'm not a machine. I can be wildly in love.
My list was just examples, not the big points gabbysmom brought up, to which I say amen also.
I'm just looking for some perhaps useful ideas. If you could redo the whole wife and marriage thing, is there something you feel might make it better? For example, The NY Times had an article this week about marriage: "...spouses who spent “time alone with each other, talking, or sharing an activity” at least once per week were 3.5 times more likely to be very happy in their marriage than spouses who did so less frequently. ...spouses with a larger percentage of shared friends spent more time together and had better marriages."
Stuff like that -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
