Wife wants divorce - my first post

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Reading all you can on here is great advice - i did some of the same things (looking at cell phone) and pursuing my H after he dropped the bomb on me last month. I have been reading Divorce Remedy, and a lot of other books too. I hope that you find help and that your wife rethinks it. Patience. I'm told it takes a ton of that. My D is going full force ahead and I think he will move out soon. I did a 180 and am GAL. I'm not sure it has made any difference. I think he's in mid life crisis or just too stubborn and will have to move out before he can see what he's walking away from. It [censored]. Hang in there and if you are a praying man... talk to God. That is the biggest change I've made in my life and it really has helped me emotionally.