Hi RT... Im no expert (by any stretch)... sounds like she wants to be honest with you and to do the right thing by the X.
What "act" are you trying to put on?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)