I know he has fears that need to be addressed. These are HIS fears, but he is keeping me at arms reach. Afraid to commit either way. How can I help ease the fear for him? I still want HIM to decide whats best for HIM, but maybe he's fearing that I am not doing enough to pursue him? or to ease his fears?
Maybe you need to be a bit more patient. Rome was not built in a day.
It seems to me, that you are still afraid to lose him. I suspect that it is going to take time for him to really reconnect. You may also have to take two step forward and one step back.
So what did you learn today?
I would think that you learned that being to pushy too soon did not yield the results that YOU wanted. So DB101 - time to try something different. Maybe give him a little more space. Maybe wait for him to text you.
What other ideas do YOU have?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
