I am extremely selfish, immature, only concerned with my own interests and not hers. I don't care about anyone else in the house. I am operating from a place of fear. I have a miserable face on ALL the time. She feels contempt and resentment towards me because i will not listen to her and move out.
Typical WAS spew, it's called "projection" because she's basically projecting all her own issues onto you. Don't argue with her, but also don't back down from your position, stand strong and confident! Just tell her you understand her concerns but you are doing what you feel is best for you and the kids.
