Hello and welcome to the forums! Your story sounds so similar to many others here. First have you read DR? If not then get it right away, the advice you'll see here is in support of the concepts laid out in the book. Also read Sandi2's 37 Rules and live those rules! You were right to stay in the house, that's a decision for the WAS to make, if she wants out then she needs to make that happen herself. The texting thing, get used to it because nearly all WAS's do it. Don't snoop, it won't help things. She's starting a new life without you and you've got to give her time and space to do it. You can't stop it. Read self-help books, work on yourself and leave her alone. Good luck!
