Things are going downhill very quickly. My lawyer requested through W's lawyer that W return my items from her parents house and W refuses to do so. She's holding my stuff for ransom until I sign the divorce decree (which is unreasonable and not written correctly). So I have a feeling we'll end up going to court.
Oh well, I have a phenomenal weekend planned!
How bout you Mimi?
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
Sorry she's being this way, I pray her heart softens and that things go better than expected.
I'm working this weekend. Surprise! lol Life is pretty plain but I feel good; I am ready for spring to come around so I can go out and about more in nature etc...!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
My government issued ammunition (1000+ rounds?) from my past life as a law enforcement officer. A $3000 painting I bought before we were even engaged, and a couple other paintings that I had purchased before we met.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
I want on a 7.5 mile hike this morning with my Meetup group, met a new girl, and we hit it off. I've been out on about 8 dates so far, I tell each of them the whole story up front and surprisingly the honesty is refreshing to them.
Tonight I am rearranging the living room! Fun times.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
Does ammo convert to personal property when you're no longer employed as a LE officer?
Is all that stuff so important (sentimentally or monetarily) that it's worth hanging on to? What's your motive?
Yes, I asked when I left LE if I needed to return the ammo and they said it was mine. It's also my responsibility as the cartridges have my prints on them so I want them back.
Yes, she shouldnt get to keep things that aren't hers.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
I'm sorry labug. I didn't mean to be short. She got to unilaterally decide what to take from the house when she walked out and already has all of her sole and separate property. I'm now at her mercy to return my property to me, it's unfair just like the entire situation has been.
I have been very nice up until now considering the alternative of how I could act. I am doing my best to continue to do so by going through my attorney for dividing up property. In my opinion, W is unreasonable and has unrealistic view on how to divide property as well as what is truly "community." She continues to want to play the victim, and so far by validating her I have allowed it to continue.
From here on out, it's through attorneys. I don't want to see or speak to her again.
I do value your feedback and I apologize for being curt before.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
