I'm trying to focus on my business and propel that forward. I've been hanging out with a friend that lives near me and planned things to do like going to concerts, etc. I am seeing a counselor to help me work out things on my end with myself, but the majority are me talking about W. My counselor believes with everything that has gone on and my W's past, it would be a long slow reconstruction and may not even happen. She thinks with my W's past, my W would need to go to a lot of solo counseling before a R can start to be worked on or else we'd be doomed to repeat the same situations with R. I somewhat agree with my counselor and that's why I mentioned in my first post that I'm trying to decide what is best for me. I know my W may be saying "we're just not right for each other" to try to justify her decision at this point, but I need to also entirely look at the sitch and see if I feel the same way. Talking to K will just complicate things and not help me decide. I need to nip this in the bud. Thanks LITB. I really appreciate all the help from you guys.
