What do you suggest I do when she starts crying about things like work and stuff? I hugged her because I wanted her to have a shoulder to cry on. She was reluctant the first time so I pulled back. The second time she reciprocated.

I do get your point about neediness. Just curious what do you suggest to do or say when I feel like comforting her when she is sad


Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms