I am going to address your last paragraph first. Your W told you something and you completely missed it. She asked you if you were playing my mind games, which to me means that she doesn't trust everything you just said in this paragraph. Quite frankly, I don't blame her.
Quit trying to fix the sitch by kissing her you know what and enabling her. It isn't helping your objective. As a matter of fact, you are slowing it down, by NOT allowing your W to face the consequences of her choices.
Do you know why we have 2 ears and 1 mouth? So we can listen more and talk less. Time to start listening and validating your W's feelings. Many times women just want to be heard and aren't looking for us to fix everything.
Another thing, the forced hugs reek of neediness. She pushed you away. That was your clue that she was uncomfortable, yet you did it again. It is very unattractive, it is pursuing and putting pressure on your W. Like I said, she doesn't trust your actions quite yet. Been there, done that.
I am sure you are surprised by my post, because you thought you did awesome. Your W gave you 2 big clues and I think you missed them both. The mind games comment and pulling away from the hug.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
