... I guess i will have to try and broach the subject again.
I broached before i left this afternoon (not wise i suspect :/)
I didn't like what W had to say when i pressed her for some feedback on my stated reluctance to leave. I got a lot of un-praise back for my trouble:-
I am extremely selfish, immature, only concerned with my own interests and not hers. I don't care about anyone else in the house. I am operating from a place of fear. I have a miserable face on ALL the time. She feels contempt and resentment towards me because i will not listen to her and move out. A lot more was said but that was the opening theme. I will sleep on it and post my thoughts later. It's late here...
When i got back tonight after this ^^^ discussion the tension in the house was high. D12 refused to talk or look at me. Both my sons wished me a happy birthday but my wife and daughter chose not to.
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014