My sister said I should look at this (probably happening) D as an opportunity, and so I wonder how to do it better next time. What advice can you offer regarding a second partner?

I can think of two examples, both being related on how to maintain a good M, one being to reserve a fixed night per week for a date with said partner, and the other being to ban electronics from the bedroom, at least within some time of going to bed (e.g. akin to people on a date both being on their cell phones, how romantic...). Of course, said partner needs to be found, wooed, etc, etc, during which I imagine Mr. Murphy will intrude in some ironic way...

Thanks,

Luke

M58, xW54
S22, D18
M 1984, D 2016
Living a new life.