I won't give up II

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Bright,
I don't get his behavior either. He does seem to think that he can have us both until he is ready to decide which one of us will suit him best! LOL Seriously, I don't understand it. To be so open about his affair must give him some kind of relief from his guilt. It almost like he's saying, "I'm being honest with you so why weren't you honest with me". It doesn't make sense but not much of what most of them say or do makes sense. He's just taken "bizarre" to another level! Bea suggested a that he may have a personality disorder and I tend to agree with her.

We were friends, not good friends but friends with ow and her h before this all happened. This makes it even more difficult to deal with. I hope that you're right that he is feeling threatened that he is losing control of me. He is getting a taste of what it will be like without me and I don't think he likes it very much. Like you with your h, I don't pursue him. I let him do almost all of the contact and have distanced myself from his and the ow's drama. I do hope that one day he can tell me what he was thinking when he did all of this.

I also hope that he is like your h and lets this go and never brings it up again. For you it's been almost a year so your h may have realized that D wasn't the answer to HIS problems.

Thanks for posting and keeping up with my situation. I need all of the support that you and others have to offer right now.