Melissa,

If you take the time to read back in your own threads, you may recognize two distinct patterns:
a) people offering broadly the same tips / advice
b) more importantly - your reactions to that advice. your focus and thought process have also been following a consistent pattern.

Think about that - perhaps it helps you understand why you feel stuck and overwhelmed...

Really - take the time to slow down, think about things, let it all sink in... it will be worth it.

I know you have heard this plenty already: nothing needs to be decided today.

((((melissa)))))


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D