If you take the time to read back in your own threads, you may recognize two distinct patterns: a) people offering broadly the same tips / advice b) more importantly - your reactions to that advice. your focus and thought process have also been following a consistent pattern.
Think about that - perhaps it helps you understand why you feel stuck and overwhelmed...
Really - take the time to slow down, think about things, let it all sink in... it will be worth it.
I know you have heard this plenty already: nothing needs to be decided today.
((((melissa)))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D