Now that was an interesting conversation my WAS and I just had. She brought up our living situation....paying down debt prior to divorce and living together the meanwhile.
I had suggested legal separation as it would be better for taxes, insurance etc, the a legal D somewhere down the road when one of us wanted to get married. She is going to look into it to see if it resolves our custodial issue as well. Perhaps all without the expense of a lawyer.
I asked her again about there being an other person and she said that is 'literally the last thing on her agenda in this situation'. I threw out the question that she would have no problem if I started dating tomorrow. She replied that that was none of her business and not in her realm of control, therefore I can do whatever I want.
Sure does sound like she is in that spot where there is no saving this marriage. Not even an ounce of irritation at considering me to start dating. This seems so hopeless perhaps it is time to move on.
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6