I actually thought I was signing up for Match.com, but mistakenly signed up for eharmony. I had been going back and forth and chose match.com for the reasons you mentioned. It sounds lame, but it's true.
I've considered cancelling the membership and not signing up for another just yet. I think I got what I was looking for. I think I just needed to feel out where I was at and it turns out I'm done with the marriage in all ways except on paper. I need to handle that part next.
I have no plans to meet anyone in person. I've only emailed a few.
Except the Monty Python guy. He's funny. I could see myself meeting him for coffee. But, I'd be up front about the situation.
I also want to lose some weight and so forth before I really get back out there. But, this experience showed me that I'm excited for a relationship in the future. And, I don't feel guilt or any sense of abusing my vows. I think that's a good sign that I'm moving forward.
Thanks for your post.
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