melissa - gotta get back to me

[melissag]

Just kind of journaling because a thought struck me. H's text to me yesterday was just more of the same crap he's been doing for years (and that my D9 identified on her own a few weeks ago and says she hates).

When I say anything to my H that indicates I am hurt or angry or [insert any non-happy emotion here], he turns it back on me.

I don't know why I would think it would be any different now . . . I guess I feel like since I have noticed these things and worked to change them, he should too. Snort.