Reaching out for support and advice 3

[bluesgal]

Wonka-I'm fine with the months. I can't imagine years. Ugh!

H wants to join the kids and I for a movie today. He asked if he could come and said he could meet us there. I said ok or we can pick him up where he's staying (it's on the way there). He said no, he doesn't want the kids to see him this way. He is embarrased about the way he is living. Yes, Wonka, he is in full fledged running mode. He drives, sleeps, avoids. It seems that everywhere he goes, he doesn't really want to be. Not content.

Yes, Labug, I will do just that. The next time he tries to engage an argument, say a nasty comment, I will end the conversation.

I was able to connect with a couple of women today at church who have gone through/are going through the same thing. It's so nice to have people to relate to. I also found a support group that meets monthly for divorced/separated women that I intend to go to. Our mutual friends have been very supportive. One couple had me over for steaks, scallops, and wine last night. I still have great people in my life. It's so sad I had to let H go. I miss sharing those things with him.

Thanks everyone for checking in on me