Sandi it's like you live in our house! You have hit the nail on the head.
When our S3 was born he didn't want to stay at home and literally did all she could to force me to give up my very successful job and be a stay at home dad from the time he was 12 weeks
After less than 24 hours in our new roles she wanted to swap back, however I had burnt too many bridges to return. To be honest I was overjoyed at being able to bond with my son and take a rest from an extremely stressful career.
I went back to work 8 months later until August 2011 with the same firm following a change of management, but was made redundant. I set up my own consultancy and it was going great until the black dog reared its head again.
She really has taken the reigns and been a great provider. I have done the household stuff, all the kid stuff, and still made several thousand a month in retained work.
She certainly has been wearing the trousers.
I need to find my c*ck and b*lls and be the man in my house again. Work, fitness and confidence will do this for me. I will be seeing an IC and will fix the sex side as best I can.