That felt pretty bad. I think the issue is, I need to distinguish between standing up for myself and my kids, and letting him in on my hurt. The first is OK, the second only makes me feel more hurt, and H dig in his heels.
Yes, because the first is being in control of you the second is being the victim.
You're getting there, you really are but this challenges everything your ever thought was "right." Have you ever heard the phrase, "The opposite of everything you believe to be true is true to someone else"? (I realize that more and more every time I look at my FB feed )
When you start looking at hings fro different perspectives it really opens things up.
Enough-hope you have a lovely day.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
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