You don't know what she knows about you. You know I don't like to mind read but I'm pretty sure he hasn't made you out to be Mother Theresa. smile

She probably either 1)thinks she can fix him or 2)is an addict herself or 3) all of the above.

Julie, you're moving forward. Being able to state what you got from the R is important because even in the worst Rs, both partners get something out of it. Being able to see that and replace it with an alternative gives you some breathing room.

Keep moving forward.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss