melissa - gotta get back to me

[labug]

Hey Melissa((()))
I'm not going to say much today. This is so difficult; make it count for something. And I know you're really trying to get this. It took me a long time, there's no shame in that.

You are in control of you. Don't engage, every question he asks doesn't need to be answered. I wasn't sure the question he asked but it seemed to me it was, 'how did you know i had a profile?' You could have said, "all that matters is I saw it", or "it's not important."

You want to counter everything, you do it here and you seem to do it with your H. Slow down, think, let the anger dissipate and figure out what you're feeling before you respond.

Take a few days off from this board and read k_g's last 2 posts over and over. She speaks from her experience with such clarity.

I'm being very serious. Sometimes we can have too many voices chattering away at us.